The High Road
Fall 2008

Young Drivers New Year’s Resolutions
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Dear Friends:

It’s amazing to me that 2008 is nearly over. Here it is November, and we are in the midst of the holiday season, ready for the love and joy that this time of year brings. Unfortunately, this has been a difficult year for many. Businesses have closed left and right, and many have lost their jobs as companies tighten their belts while hoping to just make it through tough times. We at Safe Teen Driver have certainly felt the pinch and are seriously considering restructuring our organization and the work we do. As donations have decreased and budgets have been cut, we’re faced with changing our approach in order to make sure we can continue the good work we’ve been doing. Plans are in the works, and as soon as we know what the changes will be, we’ll let everyone know.

Also, as many of you know, I recently marked the 10th anniversary of the deaths of my wife, Cindy, and daughter, Chelsea. It’s overwhelming to me to look back and see what’s happened since that fateful day. I never could have imagined that on Nov. 16, 1998, my life’s purpose would change so dramatically. There has not been one aspect of my life that hasn’t been touched by that crash. But what I thank God for every day is that I’ve been blessed with the opportunity to help others. In the past few years since Safe Teen Driver has been in effect, I’ve been honored to work with a number of young drivers, victims and victims’ families. I’ve been able to reach thousands of people with a message of hope, responsibility and forgiveness. And hopefully, they are all better for the time we spent together. I know I am.

Wishing you a blessed holiday season.

Bruce   

Healing Tip
 
When you’re grieving, the holidays may feel more like a weight around your neck than time for joy and love. The pain may be so intense that, while others immerse themselves in carols and candy canes, all you may want to do is hide in a dark room. You may be telling yourself that no one wants to see or be with you because you’re such a “downer,” or that nobody could possibly understand what you’re going through. Maybe you even feel like that everyone would be better off without you this holiday season.

Certainly, I believe that alone time for grieving is essential. And I also remember the extra sting the holidays bring. But I learned after some time that what I told myself often made the difference between burying myself under the covers and starting to live again.   Read more

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Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. -Paul Boese   
Young Drivers New Year’s Resolutions
 
The New Year is a great time for parents to revisit the rules and responsibilities of driving with their young driver. So why not take the opportunity to create New Year’s resolutions around safe driving. Or, if you haven’t already done so, use this as a chance to sign a driving contract with your teen, so he or she will know what’s expected of them.   Read more.
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Looking for more great driving resources. Visit the Safe Teen Driver Web site at www.safeteendriver.org and click on “Resources.” You’ll find a number of resources for new drivers and their parents, organizations that can provide more information, other nonprofits Safe Teen Driver supports, articles and more.   Learn more.